I had a low day on Thursday. The warning signs were there
the night before where I just felt, bleugh. As soon as I woke up I had that
familiar, hide away from the world in bed feeling and was tempted to try and
cancel everything that was on that day. I did manage to get out of bed though
and kept to at least 2 out of the 3 appointments I had. So it was a sort of
minor victory. Throughout though, a certain song was playing in my mind and as
it did it brought about certain feelings from when I used to listen to it a lot. It was
NIN’s, ‘Right where it belongs’ and as I listened to it my thoughts were
brought back to the summer of 2012; my insomnia, watching baseball, watching
Adam Curtis documentaries, seeing the night sky slowly morph back into day, the
slow realisation that my divorce was about to become a reality and that my
life, my married life was now gone. All of that was tied up within that one
song.
Sadness and fatigue were prominent
throughout that day and ensured that very little was done. In fact at one point
I had to lie down and just ‘be’. Anything else was too complicated to even
contemplate.
On the plus side, it was the first blip in something like
2/3 weeks. And in that time I have managed to at least sort out and organise my
little space and have got myself to the gym too with some consistency. Before
Xmas and during I’d put on weight and made some attempt to shed that afterwards
when I was up to it. I got rid of a bit but not enough so, now, instead of trying
again to get rid I’m going with it and have instead taken to putting on some muscle
weight. So, nuts to it. At least this way I don’t have to avoid food.
I have also just about passed my first year at Uni’.
Probably scrapped by but hey, it’s done. Now to try and find some sort of part
time employment in the meantime.